People come into our lives for a season, a reason or a lifetime. We've heard it many times, but we hardly know which level a person will be in our lives when we first meet them. When we are young we think our high school loves will be our husband and we will live happily ever after. We know all too well that is not usually the case. Life is full of lessons and we need all these people in our lives at one point or another to build and grow. Here's what to do and know about eac

While on the plane headed to Fresno, I watched a movie called All My Life. At first I was intrigued by the title, then I was intrigued by the intro and by the end of the movie I was intrigued by life. The movie is about a young couple that fall in love instantly and decide to get married. Then they find out he has cancer and doesn't have long to live. I'm not going to tell you the movie, however; what I am going to give you are 6 very important tips to follow EVERYDAY based o

The first thing that comes to mind when people say break-up is a man and a woman in a committed relationship, but this also relates to best-friendships, friendships, brotherhoods, etc. When you break-up with anyone for any situation there is a rebuilding phase. You may be hurt, torn and humbled by the break-up, but getting through it can allow you to transform and learn a lot about who you are. Here are 6 ways to rebuild after a break-up. 1) Try to separate yourself from mutu

How can you give the world, (children, spouse, job, career, friends, family, etc) any part of you without first knowing how much you mean to yourself? You have to love yourself more than the pain. That means, love yourself enough to stop drama, damage, negative energy and bad repeated history in your life. Have you ever heard the saying, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times, shame on both of us."― Stephen King, On Writing: A Memoir of t

When you make progress in your life you change more than that one situation. Progress brings happiness, peace, relief and far less struggle. In the beginning it is hard to change and most are resistant to it because it is out of "the box". When are aren't resistant to change you see that your life can take on powerful changes that could help you financially, mentally, physically and emotionally. When you open new doors you allow yourself to think and feel things you've never

In some relationships everything isn't rose peddles and kisses. You wake up and find yourself asking the question, "do I stay or go". The truth is no one can answer that question but you. There are many reasons to stay and could be many reasons to go. The best thing to do is not ask others for the answer, but look deep inside to find the truth and answer your own question. Here are some questions to ask yourself when deciding. 1) Are you happy? This is the most important ques

We have those people that have known us for years and can take advantage of what they know. They know if they beg you to do something you really don't want to do, you will do it. They know if you have extra money you will give it to them. They know if your past so they think they know your future. We can't changed what happed last year or yesterday. What we can change is how we feel about our past actions and how we act and feel about things moving forward. What changes do yo

It is a cliche saying, but it is so true. Telling your partner the truth about how you feel even when you think it may hurt their feelings is the best way to build your relationship. Hiding things and keeping quiet is creating a ticking time bomb. One small thing can lead to two other smaller things, which can turn into one large problem. The best way to have a better relationship is telling the truth. The truth shall set you free. Free from frustrations, telling others your