How can you give the world, (children, spouse, job, career, friends, family, etc) any part of you without first knowing how much you mean to yourself? You have to love yourself more than the pain. That means, love yourself enough to stop drama, damage, negative energy and bad repeated history in your life. Have you ever heard the saying, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times, shame on both of us."― Stephen King, On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft that is because we allow things to happen to us and we can't understand why. It's because you need to love yourself more than you do.
You're worth more than lies, deceit and dramatic reappearances. People will take advantage of your kindness so you have to protect yourself. When I say love yourself more than you love pain, I simply mean, don't allow yourself to be tricked into forgiving them and allowing them to do it again. When people hurt you or show you how they can hurt you, be careful. Putting yourself in front of the pain means sometimes you have to walk away to get your life in order to make better decisions in the future.
Love yourself more than you love pain means taking care of yourself even if that means cutting negative, hurtful people out of your life. Not everyone can stay during the entire ride of your life. Some people just make pit stops to bring character, circumstance or a great story. Either way your learning lessons that will make you the person you are. Love yourself and create positive influences, be around supportive people and support your true self. When you really love yourself you are as powerful as any force against you. So happy to share this with you loving folks. Keep loving & living.
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